#203ใ…ฃ๐Ÿง ์›์„œ ์ฝ๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋ชฉํ‘œ๋ผ๋ฉด '์ด ์ฑ…'๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜์„ธ์š”!

๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”

40232_1714118634.jpg

$%name%$๋‹˜, ํ˜น์‹œ '๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•'๋งŒ ์ฐพ๋А๋ผ ์˜์–ด ๊ณต๋ถ€๋ฅผ ๋ฉˆ์ถ”๊ณ  ์žˆ์ง„ ์•Š๋‚˜์š”?


์š”์ฆ˜ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” '์˜์–ด ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•(์Šคํ‚ฌ)'์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์กฐ์–ธ์— ์‚ฌ๋กœ์žกํ˜€ ์žˆ์–ด์š”. "๊ทธ๋ž˜๋จธ์ธ์œ ์ฆˆ๋ฅผ 10ํšŒ๋…ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค, ์ž๋ง‰ ์—†์ด ์‰๋„์ž‰ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค, ์Šคํ”ผํ‚นํ•  ๋• ์Šคํฌ๋ฆฝํŠธ๋ฅผ ์“ฐ๋ฉด ์•ˆ ๋œ๋‹ค" ๋“ฑ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์ด์š”.


ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”!

- ๊ทธ๋ž˜๋จธ์ธ์œ ์ฆˆ ์ฑ…์ด ์ง€๋ฃจํ•˜๋‹ค๋ฉด, 10ํšŒ๋…์„ ์ •๋ง ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„๊นŒ์š”?

- ๋ฏธ๋“œ๋ฅผ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๊ธฐ ์–ด๋ ต๋‹ค๋ฉด, ์ž๋ง‰ ์—†์ด ์‰๋„์ž‰์ด ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ• ๊นŒ์š”?

- ์ž…์„ ๋–ผ๊ธฐ์กฐ์ฐจ ํž˜๋“ค๋‹ค๋ฉด, ์Šคํฌ๋ฆฝํŠธ ์—†์ด ์Šคํ”ผํ‚น ์—ฐ์Šต์ด ๋ ๊นŒ์š”?


์‚ฌ์‹ค, ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ์ž˜ํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์Šคํ‚ฌ๋“ค์„ ๋งน๋ชฉ์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋”ฐ๋ฅด์ง€ ์•Š์•„์š”. ๋Œ€์‹  ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์งˆ๋ฌธํ•˜์ฃ . "์˜ค๋Š˜ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ์ž˜ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” 1~2๊ฐ€์ง€๋Š” ๋ฌด์—‡์ผ๊นŒ?" ์ด ์งˆ๋ฌธ์ด ๋ชฉํ‘œ๋ฅผ ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•„์›ƒํ’‹์„ ๋Š˜๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ์˜์–ด์ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์”๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์–ด๋А ๋‚ ์€ 3๋ฌธ์žฅ์„, ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋‚ ์€ 10๋ฌธ์žฅ์„์š”. ์ค‘๊ฐ„์— ์‚ฌ์ „์„ ์ฐพ๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•˜๊ณ , ChatGPT์—๊ฒŒ ์ฒจ์‚ญ์„ ๋ฐ›๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•˜์ฃ . ์Šคํ‚ฌ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒŒ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ, '์˜์–ด์ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์“ฐ๋Š” ํ–‰์œ„' ์ž์ฒด์— ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.


๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”๋„ '์˜์–ด์‹์‚ฌ๊ณ ๋ฅผ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ์ž'๋ผ๋Š” ๋ชฉํ‘œ ํ•˜๋‚˜์— ์ง‘์ค‘ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”. ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”๋ ˆํ„ฐ๋งŒ ์ฝ์œผ๋ฉด ์˜์–ด์‹์‚ฌ๊ณ ๋ฅผ ํ‚ค์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ฒŒ์š”. ๋” ๋‚˜์•„๊ฐ€ <์˜์–ด์‹์‚ฌ๊ณ  200 ๋ถ€ํŠธ์บ ํ”„>๋„ ์˜ค์ง '์˜์–ด์‹์‚ฌ๊ณ '๋ฅผ ํ‚ค์šฐ๋Š” ๋ฐ ์ดˆ์ ์„ ๋งž์ท„๋‹ต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ผ๋‹จ์€ ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”๋ ˆํ„ฐ๋กœ ๋จผ์ € ๋„์ „ํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”!


ย ย 

1. talk์™€ out of๋ฅผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์“ฐ๋ฉด ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋œป?
40232_2604923_1736493056008471280.png
์‰ฌ์šด ๋‹จ์–ด๋กœ ์ด๋ฃจ์–ด์ง„ ๊ตฌ๋™์‚ฌ 1๊ฐœ๋ฅผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ๋ฐฐ์›Œ๋ณด๋Š” ์ฝ”๋„ˆ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค! ์ˆœ์„œ๋Œ€๋กœ ๋”ฐ๋ผ ๊ฐ€๋ฉด ๊ตฌ๋™์‚ฌ 'talk out of'๋ฅผ ์˜์–ด์‹์‚ฌ๊ณ ๋กœ ์ดํ•ดํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด์š”.

1๏ธโƒฃ ํ‹ฐ์ฒ˜์กฐ์˜ ํŒ

talk (someone) out of๋ฅผ ์ง์—ญํ•˜๋ฉด โ€˜๋ง์„ ํ•ด์„œ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋ฐ–์œผ๋กœ ๋‚˜์˜ค๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋‹คโ€™์˜ˆ์š”. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ง์€ ์–ด์ƒ‰ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋“ค๋ฆฌ์ง€๋งŒ, ๊ฒฐ๊ตญ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ์„ค๋“ํ•ด์„œ ์–ด๋–ค ํ–‰๋™์„ ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๊ฑฐ์ฃ . ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ํ‡ด์‚ฌํ•˜๊ณ  ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ผ์ฃผ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ, ๊ฐ€์กฑ์ด ๋ง๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ฐ”๋žŒ์— ๊ฐ€์ง€ ๋ชปํ–ˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด โ€œMy family tried to talk me out of traveling around the world.โ€๋กœ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.


2๏ธโƒฃ ํ‹ฐ์ฒ˜ Kayla์˜ ํŒ

When we โ€œtalk somebody out ofโ€ something, we convince them not to do something. They are interested in doing something, but we think itโ€™s a bad idea. So, we try to persuade them not to do something they had planned.


3๏ธโƒฃ ์งง์€ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์œผ๋กœ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๊ธฐ

ex1) He tried to talk her out ofย moving.
(๊ทธ๋Š” ์ด์‚ฌ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ๋ง๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ง๋ ธ๋‹ค.)


ex2) Iย talked him out ofย a risky investment.
(๊ทธ์—๊ฒŒ ์œ„ํ—˜ํ•œ ํˆฌ์ž๋Š” ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ง๋ผ๊ณ  ์„ค๋“ํ–ˆ๋‹ค.)


ex3) You canโ€™tย talkย me out of quitting my job.
(๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์ผ ๊ด€๋‘๋Š” ๊ฑฐ ๋ง๋ ค๋„ ์†Œ์šฉ์—†์–ด.)


4๏ธโƒฃ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋กœ ๋ฐ˜๋ณตํ•˜๊ธฐ
A: What are you doing here?
B: Iโ€™m going to talk you out of buying that ridiculous car.
A: Itโ€™s not ridiculous. I love it!
B: Itโ€™s dangerous and expensive.

A: ์ง€๊ธˆ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„œ ๋ญ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์•ผ?
B: ๊ทธ ๋ง๋„ ์•ˆ ๋˜๋Š” ์ฐจ ์‚ฌ์ง€ ๋ง๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ง๋ฆฌ๋ ค๊ณ .
A: ์™œ ๋ง์ด ์•ˆ ๋ผ. ์ง„์งœ ๋ง˜์— ๋“ ๋‹จ ๋ง์ด์•ผ!
B: ์œ„ํ—˜ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋น„์‹ธ์ž–์•„.

2. ์˜์–ด ์›์„œ ์ฝ๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋ชฉํ‘œ๋ผ๋ฉด ์ด ์ฑ…๋ถ€ํ„ฐ!
40232_2604923_1736490739038279117.png

์˜์–ด ์›์„œ๋Š” '์˜์–ด์‹์‚ฌ๊ณ '๋ฅผ ๋ฐฐ์šธ ๋•Œ ํฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋ผ์š”. ์˜์–ด๋กœ ์ฝ์œผ๋ฉด์„œ ์˜์–ด๋กœ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋Š” ์—ฐ์Šต์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ฑฐ๋“ ์š”. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ, ์›์„œ์— ์ฒ˜์Œ ๋„์ „ํ•  ๋•Œ๋Š” ์–ด๋–ค ์ฑ…์„ ์ฝ์„์ง€๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ๊ณ ๋ฏผ๋˜๊ธฐ ๋งˆ๋ จ์ด์ฃ .ย ๋ถ€๋‹ด ์—†์ด ์ฝ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉด์„œ๋„ ๊นŠ์ด ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด๋ณผ ๋งŒํ•œ ์ฃผ์ œ๋ฅผ ๋˜์ ธ์ฃผ๋Š” ์ฑ…๋“ค์„ ๊ณจ๋ผ์™”์–ด์š”.ย ์›์„œ ์ฝ๊ธฐย ์ž…๋ฌธ์šฉ์œผ๋กœ๋„ ์ข‹๊ณ , ๋™์‹œ์—ย ์˜์–ด๋กœ ์ž๊ธฐ๊ณ„๋ฐœ์„ ์ ‘ํ•˜๋Š” ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ๊ณ„๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„ ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”.ย 


$%name%$๋‹˜,ย ์ด 3๊ถŒ์œผ๋กœ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”!

40232_2604923_1736490884906372272.jpg

1. Excellent Advice for Living


์ด ์ฑ…์˜ ์ €์ž๊ฐ€ 68์„ธ๊ฐ€ ๋˜๋˜ ๋‚  68๊ฐ€์ง€ ์ธ์ƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์กฐ์–ธ์„ ๋‹ด์€ ์˜์ƒ์„ ์ฐ๊ณ  ๊ธ€์„ ์“ฐ๋‹ค๊ฐ€ ์ด๊ฒŒ ๋ฐœ์ „ํ•ด ๋ฌด๋ ค 450๊ฐœ์˜ ์กฐ์–ธ์„ ๋ชจ์•„ ์ฑ…์„ ๋‚ด๊ฒŒ ๋˜์—ˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•ด์š”.ย ๋ช…์–ธ์ง‘๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฑฐ๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ์š”. ์ด ์ฑ…์„ ๊ณ ๋ฅธ ์ฃผ๋œ ์ด์œ  ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋Š” ๋ฐ”๋กœย '์™„๋…์˜ ๊ฒฝํ—˜'ย ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ด์—์š”.


์›์„œ ์ฝ๊ธฐ์—์„œ ๋†“์น˜๊ธฐ ์‰ฌ์šด ํฌ์ธํŠธ๊ฐ€ ๋ฐ”๋กœ ์ฑ…์„ ์ฒ˜์Œ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ๋๊นŒ์ง€ ๋๋‚ด๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒฝํ—˜์„ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.ย ํ•œ ๊ถŒ์„ ๋๋‚ด ๋ณธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์•ž์œผ๋กœ ๋‘ ๊ถŒ, ์„ธ ๊ถŒ์˜ ์›์„œ๋„ ๋๋‚ผ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ์„ฑ์ด ํ›จ์”ฌ ๋” ๋†’์•„์ง€๊ฒ ์ฃ .ย 


๋‚ด์šฉ์ด ์งง๊ณ  ์ฝคํŒฉํŠธํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ช…์–ธ๋‹ต๊ฒŒ ์œ ์šฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋ฌธ์–ด์ฒด๋„ ์•„๋‹ˆ๊ณ ์š”.ย ๊ตฌ์–ด์ฒด์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ํ‘œํ˜„๋„ ๋งŽ์ด ๋“ค์–ด์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์˜์–ด ๋Œ€ํ™”์—๋„ ๋ถ„๋ช… ๋„์›€์ด ๋  ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”.ย ์›์„œ ํ•œ ๊ถŒ์„ ์ฒ˜์Œ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ๋๊นŒ์ง€ ์ฝ์–ด๋‚ด๋Š”ย '์™„๋…์˜ ๊ฒฝํ—˜'์„ ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์ •๋ง ์ข‹์•„์š”.ย 

40232_2604923_1736490899625376800.jpg

2. Anything You Want


์ด ์ฑ…์˜ ์ €์ž์ธ ๋ฐ๋ฆญ ์‹œ๋ฒ„์Šค๋Š” ์ธ๋”” CD ์œ ํ†ต ํ”Œ๋žซํผ์ธ CD baby๋ฅผ ์„ค๋ฆฝํ•ด ์„ฑ๊ณต์„ ๊ฑฐ๋’€์ง€๋งŒ, ์ดํ›„ ํšŒ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๋งค๊ฐํ•œ ๋’ค ์ž์œ ๋กœ์šด ์‚ถ์„ ์„ ํƒํ•œ ๋…ํŠนํ•œ ์ด๋ ฅ์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์–ด์š”.ย ๋ฎค์ง€์…˜, ์„œ์ปค์Šค ์—ฐ์ถœ๊ฐ€, ์ฒ ํ•™์ž ๋“ฑ ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ์—ญํ• ์„ ๊ฒฝํ—˜ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์Œ“์€ ์ธ์ƒ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์ฑ… ์†์— ๊ณ ์Šค๋ž€ํžˆ ๋‹ด๊ฒจ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.ย 


์ด ์ฑ…์˜ย ๊ฐ€์žฅ ํฐ ์ถ”์ฒœ ์ด์œ ๋Š” '๊ฐ„๊ฒฐํ•จ'์ด์—์š”. ์ €์ž๋Š” ๋…์ž๊ฐ€ ๋ถ€๋‹ด ์—†์ด ์ฝ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋„๋ก ๊ธ€์„ ์งง๊ณ  ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์“ฐ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์œผ๋กœ ์œ ๋ช…ํ•ด์š”.ย ๋ณต์žกํ•œ ์ˆ˜์‹์–ด๋‚˜ ๊ตฐ๋”๋”๊ธฐ ์—†์ด ํ•ต์‹ฌ ๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€๋งŒ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•˜๋Š” ๊ธ€์ด ์˜์–ด ์›์„œ ์ฝ๊ธฐ์— ์ฒ˜์Œ ๋„์ „ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ถ„๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์ข‹์€ ์„ ํƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.


์ฑ…์„ ๋‹ค ์ฝ๊ณ  ๋‚˜๋ฉด '์™„๋…'์ด๋ผ๋Š” ์„ฑ์ทจ๊ฐ๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ์‹œ๊ฐ์„ ์–ป์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„ ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”!

40232_2604923_1736490928745107645.jpg

3. Reframe Your Brain


์Šค์ฝง ์• ๋ค์Šค๋Š” ์ธ๊ธฐ ๋งŒํ™”์˜ ์ฐฝ์ž‘์ž์ธ๋ฐ์š”, ๋…์ฐฝ์ ์ธ ์‚ฌ๊ณ ์™€ ์ž๊ธฐ๊ณ„๋ฐœ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊นŠ์€ ํ†ต์ฐฐ์„ ๊ฐ€์ง„ ์ €์ž์˜ˆ์š”.ย Reframe Your Brain์€ ์ œ๋ชฉ์—์„œ ๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋“ฏ์ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ€์ง„ ๊ธฐ์กด์˜ ์‚ฌ๊ณ ๋ฐฉ์‹์„ ์‚ด์ง ๋น„ํ‹€์–ด ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ๊ด€์ ์œผ๋กœ ์„ธ์ƒ์„ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.ย 


ํ•œ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์„ ๋˜์ง€๊ณ , ๊ทธ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ฐ„๊ฒฐํ•œ ์ฝ”๋ฉ˜ํŠธ๋ฅผ ๋ถ™์ด๋Š” ํ˜•์‹์œผ๋กœ ๊ตฌ์„ฑ๋˜์–ด ์žˆ์–ด์š”.ย ๋ณต์žกํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์–ด๋ ต๊ฒŒ ๋А๊ปด์ง€์ง€ ์•Š๋„๋ก ์งง๊ณ  ๋ช…๋ฃŒํ•œ ๋ฌธ์žฅ๋“ค๋กœ ์ฑ„์›Œ์ ธ์žˆ์–ด ์›์„œ ์ฝ๊ธฐ์— ๋„์ „ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์ข‹์•„์š”.ย ์งง๊ณ  ๊ฐ„๊ฒฐํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊นŠ์€ ์šธ๋ฆผ์„ ์ฃผ๋Š” ๋ฌธ์žฅ์œผ๋กœ ์›์„œ ์ฝ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ด ๋ณด์„ธ์š”!



1. Excellent Advice for Living์ด ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์‰ฝ๊ณ 

2. Anything You Want์ด ์ค‘๊ฐ„ย 

3. Reframe Your Brain์ด ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ์–ด๋ ต์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.


์ฑ…์˜ ๋‚œ์ด๋„๋Š” ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์ˆœ์„œ๋Œ€๋กœ ์กฐ๊ธˆ์”ฉ ์˜ฌ๋ผ๊ฐ€๋‹ˆย ์ˆœ์„œ๋Œ€๋กœ ๋ณด์‹œ๋Š” ๊ฑธ ์ถ”์ฒœํ•ด์š”!ย 


3. ๋ธŒ๋ผ์ด๋œ ์ƒค์›Œ๋Š” ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฑฐ๋‹ค!
40232_2604923_1736477404441250347.png
๋ฏธ๊ตญ์—์„œ๋Š” ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์‹ ์ „์— ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์ด๋ฒคํŠธ๋ฅผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•ด์š”. ์ด๊ฐ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ, ์ฒ˜๋…€ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ ๋“ฑ์ด ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ์š”. ์š”์ฆ˜ ํ•œ๊ตญ์—์„œ๋„ ๋งŽ์ด ํ•˜๋Š” '๋ธŒ๋ผ์ด๋œ ์ƒค์›Œ'์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด์„œ ์•Œ์•„๋ณผ๊ฒŒ์š”. ์˜์–ด๊ถŒ๊ตญ๊ฐ€์˜ ๋ฌธํ™”๋ฅผ ์ดํ•ดํ•ด๋ด…์‹œ๋‹ค.

์ด ๊ธ€์€ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ์›์–ด๋ฏผ Kayla๊ฐ€ ์ž‘์„ฑํ•˜๊ณ , ํ‹ฐ์ฒ˜ ๋ฅด๋„ค๊ฐ€ ์ง์ ‘ ๋ฒˆ์—ญํ•œ ์ฝ˜ํ…์ธ ์˜ˆ์š”. ์ฑ—GPT๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹Œ, ์‚ด์•„์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝํ—˜์ด ๋‹ด๊ธด ์ง„์งœ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ž๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์•ž์œผ๋กœ๋„ ์˜์–ด์‹์‚ฌ๊ณ ์™€ ๋ฌธํ™”๋ฅผ ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”์ด ๊ผผ๊ผผํžˆ ์ฑ™๊ฒจ๋“œ๋ฆด๊ฒŒ์š”! ๐Ÿ˜Š

There are many events that take place before a wedding in the U.S. You may have heard of bachelor and bachelorette parties, but today, weโ€™re going to take a look at bridal showers.ย 

๋ฏธ๊ตญ์—์„œ๋Š” ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์‹ ์ „์— ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์ด๋ฒคํŠธ๋ฅผ ํ•ด์š”. ์ด๊ฐ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ, ์ฒ˜๋…€ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ ์–˜๊ธฐ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋“ค์–ด๋ณธ ์ ์ด ์žˆ์„ ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”. ์˜ค๋Š˜์€ ๋ธŒ๋ผ์ด๋œ ์ƒค์›Œ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์•Œ์•„๋ณผ๊ฒŒ์š”.ย 


This is a party, usually hosted by friends of the bride, to celebrate the bride-to-be and give her advice and gifts. The maid of honor, a best friend, or perhaps even the brideโ€™s mother is typically in charge of planning the event.

๋ธŒ๋ผ์ด๋œ ์ƒค์›Œ๋Š” ๋ณดํ†ต ์‹ ๋ถ€์˜ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋“ค์ด ์ฃผ์ตœํ•˜๋Š” ํŒŒํ‹ฐ์ธ๋ฐ์š”, ์˜ˆ๋น„ ์‹ ๋ถ€๋ฅผ ์ถ•ํ•˜ํ•˜๊ณ  ์กฐ์–ธ๋„ ํ•ด์ฃผ๊ณ  ์„ ๋ฌผ๋„ ์ฃผ๋Š” ์ž๋ฆฌ์—์š”. ์ฃผ๋กœ ์‹ ๋ถ€ ๋“ค๋Ÿฌ๋ฆฌ ๋Œ€ํ‘œ๋‚˜ ์ ˆ์นœํ•œ ์นœ๊ตฌ, ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ์‹ ๋ถ€์˜ ์–ด๋จธ๋‹ˆ๊ฐ€ ์ค€๋น„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.


ย Since bridal showers are usually small, we generally invite the bridal party and perhaps a few other close friends. Itโ€™s typically a women-only event. You should only invite people who were also invited to the wedding. Itโ€™s also common to throw surprise bridal showers. However, if itโ€™s not a surprise, the bride might have some ideas about what kind of bridal shower she wants.

๋ธŒ๋ผ์ด๋œ ์ƒค์›Œ๋Š” ๊ทœ๋ชจ๊ฐ€ ์ž‘์€ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ์—ฌ์„œ ์‹ ๋ถ€ ๋“ค๋Ÿฌ๋ฆฌ๋“ค๊ณผ ๋ช‡๋ช‡ ๊ฐ€๊นŒ์šด ์นœ๊ตฌ๋“ค๋งŒ ์ดˆ๋Œ€ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ณดํ†ต ์—ฌ์„ฑ๋“ค๋งŒ ์ฐธ์„ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ชจ์ž„์ด์—์š”. ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์‹์— ์ดˆ๋Œ€๋ฐ›์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋งŒ ์ดˆ๋Œ€ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ์›์น™์ด๊ณ ์š”. ๊นœ์ง ๋ธŒ๋ผ์ด๋œ ์ƒค์›Œ๋ฅผ ์ค€๋น„ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๋„ ๋งŽ์•„์š”. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊นœ์ง์ด๋ฒคํŠธ๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ๋ฉด, ์‹ ๋ถ€๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋–ค ๋ธŒ๋ผ์ด๋œ ์ƒค์›Œ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€์ง€ ์•„์ด๋””์–ด๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์–ด์š”.


Some bridal showers have themes like beach, tea party, or fiesta. Many are hosted at a friendโ€™s house, but itโ€™s also common to hold them at a restaurant or private event venue. They typically take place during the day, two to six months before the wedding. During the party, the hosts provide food, usually something light like finger foods or sandwiches, and drinks like champagne or mimosas. The group will play games together and do other activities, like making a wedding dress out of toilet paper.ย 

ํ•ด๋ณ€, ํ‹ฐํŒŒํ‹ฐ, ํ”ผ์—์Šคํƒ€ ๋“ฑ์˜ ํ…Œ๋งˆ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์ง„ํ–‰๋˜๊ณค ํ•ด์š”. ์นœ๊ตฌ ์ง‘์—์„œ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๊ฐ€ ๋งŽ์€๋ฐ, ๋ ˆ์Šคํ† ๋ž‘์ด๋‚˜ ํ”„๋ผ์ด๋น—ํ•œ ์ด๋ฒคํŠธ ์žฅ์†Œ์—์„œ ์—ด๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๋„ ํ”ํ•ด์š”. ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์‹ 2๊ฐœ์›”์—์„œ 6๊ฐœ์›” ์ „, ๋‚ฎ์— ์ฃผ๋กœ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํŒŒํ‹ฐ๊ฐ€ ์—ด๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋™์•ˆ ํ˜ธ์ŠคํŠธ๋Š” ํ•‘๊ฑฐํ‘ธ๋“œ๋‚˜ ์ƒŒ๋“œ์œ„์น˜ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ์Œ์‹๊ณผ ์ƒดํŽ˜์ธ์ด๋‚˜ ๋ฏธ๋ชจ์‚ฌ ๊ฐ™์€ ์Œ๋ฃŒ๋ฅผ ์ค€๋น„ํ•ด์š”. ๊ฐ™์ด ๊ฒŒ์ž„์„ ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜, ํœด์ง€๋กœ ์›จ๋”ฉ๋“œ๋ ˆ์Šค ๋งŒ๋“ค๊ธฐ ๊ฐ™์€ ํ™œ๋™๋“ค์„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.


Towards the end of the party, the bride opens the gifts the guests have brought. Some people opt to open the gifts later with their fiancรฉ. The gifts may be exclusively for the bride, but they are more often for the couple. Itโ€™s common to give small appliances or other items the couple will use in their new home. Compared to a bachelorette party, a bridal shower is much more formal and relaxed. I hope this gives you a better idea of another common event related to American wedding culture.

ย ํŒŒํ‹ฐ๊ฐ€ ๋๋‚  ์ฆˆ์Œ, ์‹ ๋ถ€๋Š” ์†๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€์ ธ์˜จ ์„ ๋ฌผ์„ ํ’€์–ด ๋ด์š”. ๋‚˜์ค‘์— ์•ฝํ˜ผ์ž์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์„ ๋ฌผ์„ ํ’€์–ด๋ณด๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด ํ•˜๋Š” ์‹ ๋ถ€๋„ ์žˆ์ฃ . ์‹ ๋ถ€๋งŒ์„ ์œ„ํ•œ ์„ ๋ฌผ๋„ ์žˆ๊ฒ ์ง€๋งŒ, ๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„์€ ์ปคํ”Œ์„ ์œ„ํ•œ ์„ ๋ฌผ์ด์—์š”. ์ƒˆ์ง‘์—์„œ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์†Œํ˜• ๊ฐ€์ „์ œํ’ˆ์ด๋‚˜ ๊ธฐํƒ€ ๋ฌผ๊ฑด๋“ค์„ ์ฃผ๋กœ ์„ ๋ฌผํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ฒ˜๋…€ ํŒŒํ‹ฐ์™€ ๋น„๊ตํ•˜๋ฉด, ๋ธŒ๋ผ์ด๋œ ์ƒค์›Œ๋Š” ์ข€ ๋” ๊ฒฉ์‹์„ ์ฐจ๋ฆฌ๋ฉด์„œ๋„ ์—ฌ์œ ๋กœ์šด ๋ถ„์œ„๊ธฐ์˜ˆ์š”. ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์‹ ๋ฌธํ™”์™€ ๊ด€๋ จ๋œ ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ด๋ฒคํŠธ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋” ์ž˜ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๋Š” ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ๋˜์—ˆ๊ธธ ๋ฐ”๋ผ์š”!ย 

โ“โ— ์œ„ ๊ธ€์„ ์ฝ๊ณ  2๊ฐ€์ง€ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋ณธ์ธ ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ์˜์–ด๋กœ ๋งํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”!


Q1) Would you like to join a bridal shower? Why or why not?ย 

๋ธŒ๋ผ์ด๋œ ์ƒค์›Œ์— ์ฐธ์„ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€๊ฐ€์š”? ๊ทธ ์ด์œ ๋Š”์š”?


Q2) Would you prefer to receive gifts or money? Why?ย 

์„ ๋ฌผ๊ณผ ๋ˆ ์ค‘ ์–ด๋–ค ๊ฑธ ๋ฐ›๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‚˜์š”? ๊ทธ ์ด์œ ๋Š”์š”?


์˜์–ด์‹์‚ฌ๊ณ ๋ฅผ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”์ด 2๊ฐ€์ง€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์œผ๋กœ ๋„์™€๋“œ๋ฆด๊ฒŒ์š”.


<์˜์–ด์‹์‚ฌ๊ณ  200 ๋ถ€ํŠธ์บ ํ”„>ย : ํ˜„์žฌ 1~4๊ธฐ์—์„œ 100๋ช… ์ด์ƒ์ด ์ฐธ์—ฌํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์–ด์š”. 10๊ฐœ์›”๊ฐ„ ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”์ด ์ง์ ‘ ์ œ์ž‘ํ•œ ๊ณ ํ€„๋ฆฌํ‹ฐ ์ž๋ฃŒ์™€ ์ฒด๊ณ„์ ์ธ ํ•™์Šต๋ฒ•, ์ฒ ์ €ํ•œ ๋ณต์Šต ์‹œ์Šคํ…œ, 1:1 ๋งž์ถค ์ผ€์–ด, ๋ผ์ด๋ธŒ ํŠน๊ฐ•, ๊ผผ๊ผผํ•œ ํ”ผ๋“œ๋ฐฑ๊นŒ์ง€ ๋ชจ๋‘ ์ œ๊ณตํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜์–ด๋กœ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์˜์–ด๋กœ ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋„๋ก ํ™•์‹คํžˆ ๋ณ€ํ™”์‹œ์ผœ ๋“œ๋ฆด๊ฒŒ์š”!


<์—๋ฐ€๋ฆฌ, ํŒŒ๋ฆฌ์— ๊ฐ€๋‹ค 400๋ฌธ์žฅ> : ๋ˆ„์  1,300๊ถŒ ์ด์ƒ ํŒ๋งค๋œ ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ” ๋Œ€ํ‘œ ์ „์ž์ฑ…์ด์—์š”. ๋ฏธ๋“œ ์—๋ฐ€๋ฆฌ ์‹œ์ฆŒ 1~4์—์„œ ์˜์–ด์‹์‚ฌ๊ณ ๊ฐ€ ๋‹ด๊ธด 400๋ฌธ์žฅ๋งŒ ์„ ๋ณ„ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์—๋Š” ํ‹ฐ์ฒ˜์˜ ์ƒ์„ธํ•œ ํ•ด์„ค๊ณผ MP3 ์Œ์› ํŒŒ์ผ, ๋ณต์Šต์„ ๋•๋Š” ํ€ด์ฆˆ๊นŒ์ง€ ๋ชจ๋‘ ๋‹ด๊ฒจ์žˆ์–ด์š”. ๋ฏธ๋“œ ์ „์ฒด ์Šคํฌ๋ฆฝํŠธ๋ฅผ ๊ณต๋ถ€ํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋ถ€๋‹ด์Šค๋Ÿฝ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ์ด ์ „์ž์ฑ…์„ ์ถ”์ฒœ๋“œ๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค!

๐Ÿ’›
ํ•ด์„ค์€ ํ‹ฐ์ฒ˜์กฐ
์˜์–ด๋Š” ํ‹ฐ์ฒ˜ ์ผ€์ผ๋ผ
๋ฒˆ์—ญ์€ ํ‹ฐ์ฒ˜ ๋ฅด๋„ค
๊ธฐํš/์ž‘์„ฑ์€ ๋งค๋‹ˆ์ € ๋ฆฐ์ง€
203๋ฒˆ์งธ ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”๋ ˆํ„ฐ์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ํ•ด์ฃผ์…”์„œ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค!

๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”๋ ˆํ„ฐ์— ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋Š” ์ ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉดย (์ด๊ณณ)์— ๋‚จ๊ฒจ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”.
๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”์€ ๋ฐ์ผ๋ฆฌ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋“ค์˜ ํ”ผ๋“œ๋ฐฑ์„ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๊ตฌ๋…๊ณผ ์ง€๋‚œ ๋‰ด์Šค๋ ˆํ„ฐ ํ™•์ธ์€ย (์—ฌ๊ธฐ)์—์„œ
homepage-snsD.pngblog-snsD.pnginstagram-snsD.pngyoutube-snsD.pngchannel-snsD.png
๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”
learnable_@naver.com
์ˆ˜์‹ ๊ฑฐ๋ถ€ Unsubscribe


๐Ÿ“Œย ย 

๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”ใ…ฃ์˜์–ด๋กœ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด์•ผ ์˜์–ด๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜์˜จ๋‹ค


20์‚ด ์ดํ›„ ํ•œ๊ตญ์—์„œ ์˜์–ด์‹์‚ฌ๊ณ ๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ๋ฅด๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด

<์˜์–ด์‹์‚ฌ๊ณ  200 ๋ถ€ํŠธ์บ ํ”„>์—์„œย ๊ณง ๋งŒ๋‚˜์š” :)


Build Your English Brain๐Ÿง 

https://learnable.kr/

์ด๊ฒƒ์ €๊ฒƒ ๋‹ค ํ•ด๋ดค๋Š”๋ฐ,

ํ•ญ์ƒ ์ค‘๊ฐ„์— ํฌ๊ธฐํ–ˆ๋‚˜์š”?

Business Information

์ƒํ˜ธ: ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ” ์›๊ฒฉํ‰์ƒ๊ต์œก์› | ๋Œ€ํ‘œ : ์กฐ์ฐฌ์›…

์‚ฌ์—…์ž๋“ฑ๋ก๋ฒˆํ˜ธ: 202-02-54519 

์ฃผ์†Œ: ์„œ์šธ์‹œ ๋งˆํฌ๊ตฌ ๋…๋ง‰๋กœ9๊ธธ 18 3์ธต B1ํ˜ธ

๋ฌธ์˜ : 010-2297-3230 (๋ฌธ์ž๋งŒ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ)

ํ†ต์‹ ํŒ๋งค์‹ ๊ณ ๋ฒˆํ˜ธ : 2020-์„œ์šธ๋™์ž‘-1353ํ˜ธ I ๊ฐœ์ธ์ •๋ณด์ฒ˜๋ฆฌ๋ฐฉ์นจ  ์ด์šฉ์•ฝ๊ด€

Copyright โ“’ 2024 ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”, ์˜์–ด๋กœ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด์•ผ ์˜์–ด๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜์˜จ๋‹ค! All rights reserved.

Need Help?

์นด์นด์˜คํ†ก ์ฑ„๋„ : '๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”'  

10์‹œ์—์„œ 18์‹œ๊นŒ์ง€ ํ‰์ผ ์šด์˜ (์ฃผ๋ง ๋ฐ ๊ณตํœด์ผ ์ œ์™ธ)

Business Information

์ƒํ˜ธ: ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ” ์›๊ฒฉํ‰์ƒ๊ต์œก์› | ๋Œ€ํ‘œ : ์กฐ์ฐฌ์›…

์‚ฌ์—…์ž๋“ฑ๋ก๋ฒˆํ˜ธ: 202-02-54519 [์‚ฌ์—…์ž์ •๋ณดํ™•์ธ]

ํ†ต์‹ ํŒ๋งค์‹ ๊ณ ๋ฒˆํ˜ธ : 2020-์„œ์šธ๋™์ž‘-1353ํ˜ธ I 

๊ฐœ์ธ์ •๋ณด์ฒ˜๋ฆฌ๋ฐฉ์นจ  I ์ด์šฉ์•ฝ๊ด€

Need Help?

์นด์นด์˜คํ†ก ์ฑ„๋„ : '๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”'  

10์‹œ์—์„œ 18์‹œ๊นŒ์ง€ ํ‰์ผ ์šด์˜ (์ฃผ๋ง ๋ฐ ๊ณตํœด์ผ ์ œ์™ธ)

Copyright โ“’ 2024 ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”, ์˜์–ด๋กœ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด์•ผ ์˜์–ด๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜์˜จ๋‹ค! All rights reserved.